Thursday, January 29, 2009

Wedding Contracts 101


With the bridal show season in full swing, you will order many services and products for your wedding. Make sure that you cover yourself by always working with reputable vendors and make sure that your wedding contracts are in place.


I thought that I would share the details from one of my presentations so that understanding wedding contracts (before you sign them) becomes easier. If a contract looks too confusing though, you may want to contact your legal advisor.


Details about wedding contracts

1. Always get details in writing when making decisions on your wedding vendors, production, and services. Any discounts, rebates, “freebies,” and other changes to contracts should also be done in writing. Make sure to date them as well.
2. Read contracts carefully before signing. If you are uncomfortable, ask questions and do not sign until you your questions answered. Take the contract home and have someone else read it for clarification before you sign it.
3. Make sure that the contract contains pertinent contact information for the vendor. Any time that your contact information changes, make sure that you alert your wedding vendors in writing. Always keep copies of your correspondence with vendors.
4. Pay vendors with check, money order, or credit card when possible. If you pay cash to any vendor always get a receipt immediately. Be cautious if a vendor requires cash or payment in full up front.

Contract terms that you should know before you sign:

Deposit—a partial payment made at the time of purchase with the balance to be paid later.
Retainer—fee charged in advance to retain the professional services of someone.
Applicable fees—setup, delivery, travel or mileage, taxes, corkage, gratuity, parking, permits, clean up, cake cutting, or others. Always ask for clarification if the contract references an unfamiliar fee.
Additional fees—returned checks, late payment, and/or fees for collection (including attorney’s fees, court costs, and possible interest). Situation occur so be aware that your vendors will pass on costs to cover losses if these circumstances occur with you.
Cancellation policies [when (you) purchaser cancels]—all companies should have some type of defined cancellation policy. Keep in mind that the company has turned away potential business by having your contract. They can not “go back” to those people and try to get the business to replace what they were going to do for you. Depending on when the cancellation occurs, products or consumables have been ordered specifically for you.
Pro-rated cancellation payment schedule-a percentage based on the number of days (or months) prior to your wedding event. The closer to the contract date the higher percentage that you will owe.
Cancellation fees-fees above and beyond the amount you owe on the cancelled contract.
Cancellation policies [if company cancels on (you) the client]—all reputable companies should be able to put in writing what they will do for you (as the client) if they would cancel on you.
Compensation-fee that the company would owe you if they cancelled their services to you.
Suitable substitution-the company would find a substitution in the event that they cancelled the contract on you. This is very important in the case of Officiants or entertainment and where you had written expectations of a specific person(s). In the case of wedding products, make sure that the substitution is equal or "better" than what you agreed to purchase.
Liability Insurance—are you required (by reception venue) to provide liability insurance? Are you held liable for property damages, personal injuries, or accidents due to host liquor liability? What happens if gifts are stolen or a natural disaster occurs during your wedding?
Overtime fees—many times it is less expensive to ask for a longer package or more services ahead of time. On “the day of” overtime may be anywhere from 1 ½ to 2 times more expensive. Many companies have a set package and do not allow any overtime.
Rental items policies—tuxedos and other rental items (cake stands, floral, etc) have a return policy. Be clear on date(s) and conditions as to not incur late or other fees.
Final payments—many vendors require final payment a number of days before your actual wedding. Try to make as many final payments as possible prior to your wedding. This will help avoid late payment fees/charges.


If you have a "term" not explained above, just leave a comment or email me and I will get you the definition. Remember that many states (and countries) have different "rules" so if your plan a destination wedding make sure that you have all of the details.


Happy Planning!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Take Control of Your Bridal Show Adventure


The ACD Classic City Bridal Show is this Sunday. I wanted to share some tips on how to reduce the “overwhelming” feelings that many bride experience during a bridal show. The following tips are only a few tips to survive any bridal show. Be sure to check out the full article.

- Wear comfortable shoes for walking. Most facilities only have space to sit and view a fashion show. Keep in mind that you will spend most of your time walking, standing, and talking.
- Bring a roll (or sheet) of pre-addressed name and address labels. Many shows as well as vendors offer FREE registration for door prizes and give-a-ways.
- Bring a swatch of material or ribbon in your wedding colors. This will give both you and the vendors a better visualization of you wedding ideas.
- Register for any/all prizes that interest you. Keep in mind that by you registering for these prizes you are granting permission for those vendors to contact you (via phone, mail, or email).
- Pace yourself. You will only have a short amount of time to talk to the wedding professionals in the areas where you need assistance. Get as much information in writing as possible. Find out when you can schedule a private appointment or consultation.
- Do not make a day of decision unless you previously talked to that vendor. Any vendors who offer show specials should offer a deadline after the show date.
Take your accumulated information, notes, and photos home. Go through these items within a couple of days of the bridal show. You will have the clearest thoughts soon after the show rather than weeks or months later. Take the time to enjoy the bridal show as a whole and try to take your time. You might find that you find additional assistance with your wedding in the most unlikely of places.


Happy Planning!!

Monday, January 12, 2009

Just a Snack...




Your wedding day will be a very long day that goes very quickly. Regardless of how nervous you are, you should try to eat a healthy breakfast and lunch. Even fresh fruit, cheeses, and veggies are better than going hungry. Keep yourself hydrated with plenty of water and not alcohol or sugary, caffeinated drinks as these will zap your energy level later in the evening.

At a recent wedding, I started my own little tradition for the bride and groom. I cut two small pieces of their wedding cake and put them on a paper plate. Then I wrapped it in plastic and added napkins and a couple of forks for them to actually enjoy their cake during their limo ride after the reception.

You might want to ask your caterer or wedding coordinator to put a small care package together for you at the end of the reception. Your nerves and stress level will be a lot lower after your reception. And by that time, you may want to eat a little something to round out the evening. It would be a lot more enjoyable (and healthier) than running through the Taco Bell drive through in your wedding dress.

Happy Planning

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Getting Started...with Your Wedding Planning


Thursday, January 29, 2009

This exciting Bridal Academy event focuses on the first steps of planning you most special day.


The Bridal Academy sponsors will share their experience with you on:


Wedding Themes
The ABC’s of Selecting Entertainment
Invitations-They Set the Tone

Be sure to call 260-482-1250 to reserve your spot for this informative wedding event. Each bride may bring one guest. The Bridal Academy January session begins at 7pm. Light refreshments will be served at the conclusion during the informal bridal Q&A portion of the event. Each bride will receive a goodie bag filled with special gifts, information, and wedding offers. Hope to see you there.


The January session will be at the Monogram Shoppe in Covington Plaza-6410 West Jefferson Blvd in Fort Wayne, Indiana.


The Bridal Academy Sponsors include the Wedding Place, the Monogram Shoppe, and Megasound.

Monday, December 29, 2008

5-4-3-2-1…Countdown to the Bridal Spectacular




One way for the detailed-minded bride to start her wedding planning adventure is to attend a bridal show. A bridal show may make some men want to go to a gun and knife show. For any bride though that needs to talk to a lot of wedding professionals in a short amount of time without running around town, this weekends Bridal Spectacular holds the answers to many wedding questions.

The Bridal Academy sponsors will also be on site to assist you in making your wedding planning experience enjoyable. Sara Keltsch of the Monogram Shoppe will have all of the latest wedding invitation styles as well as “save-the-date” card examples and wedding party gifts. She will help you avoid all of the major pitfalls when phrasing your wedding paper ensemble. Dawn Quick of the Wedding Place provides you with double the resources for your wedding fashions. One booth will feature bridesmaids styles as well as guys tuxedos. Her other booth is exclusively made up of the latest bridal gowns. Dawn also promises some magical surprises too.

Going hand-in-hand with the latest in bridal fashions, the Wedding Place is exclusively featured at the Bridal Spectacular fashion runway shows (at 1:30pm and 3:30pm) on Saturday and Sunday (January 3rd and 4th). What does that mean for every bride and her wedding entourage? It means that the hottest wedding attire and the coolest bridal colors will be on display right before your eyes. Everything thing from breath-taking bridal gowns and accessories and sharp-dressed guys tuxedos to fashion-forward bridesmaids attire and adorable flower girl dresses.

June Hoffman from Megasound is the official MC for all four of the style shows. She is taking care of all of the needed commentary and helpful information. The runway music was compiled with a fun-party atmosphere in mind. No lullabies this weekend.

Be sure to register at any of the four fashion shows for the Bridal Academy gift basket. You need not be present to win so make sure to sign up as the gift basket is filled with wonderful wedding goodies. Hope to see you this weekend! Happy Planning.
P.S. Checkout some of the tips on how to survive a bridal show.
Bridal Spectacular
Allen County War Memorial Coliseum
4000 Parnell Ave
Fort Wayne, IN 46805
Admission fee and parking fee at the door

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Snow, Rain, Sleet, Ice, Oh My…


Due to the fact that Mother Nature has her own agenda, Indiana (and many other states) and especially Fort Wayne were hit by an ice storm this past week. As I was driving on some of the slickest ice in the area (or at least it seemed that way), all I could think was I sure hope that brides have opted to have their weddings in some other month (than the middle of December).

December in Indiana has a fair share of challenges. Worrying about friends and family arriving safely to their wedding should be one of the lesser fears on a brides mind. This is not to discourage concern, but put no additional stress on a bride.

I asked myself, what back up plans can be made in case Mother Nature takes a turn for the worse. With modern technology, wedding can be broadcast on web-cam. Twenty years ago when I started in the DJ world, guests just stayed home from a wedding if a blizzard showed up on a wedding day. Even ten years ago, if the weather was too bad, brides and grooms simply had to pay for their confirmed number for dinner even if a snow storm kept the guests from joining the reception. Now, of course, a web-cam should not be a replacement for guests attending, but it might even make it an option for more of your loved ones to enjoy being an actual part of the ceremony/reception.

One thing to ask your reception facility is their back up plan for power outages and such. In many cases, venues have back up generators available. Even some DJ’s (like Megasound) have back up plans for power, but these must be arranged in advance.

Even in fair-weather months, the weather and nature can change quickly and without too much warning. You should consider your back up plan for your wedding. No need to overly fret over flooding, snow storms, and drought as these are generally few and far in between in Fort Wayne. Think about what the time of the year you select for your weddings and what the weather may hold. Remember that the most important part of your wedding day is that you are getting married to the man you love. You may wind up having your ceremony by candle-light. That might be nice.

Happy holidays and happy planning!!

Monday, December 8, 2008

Spring 2009 Bridal Academy Dates Announced


The Bridal Academy sponsors are proud to announce the spring 2009 Bridal Academy sessions:


These Thursday evening sessions will be on January 29th, February 26th, and March 26th.


Registration at 6:45 p.m. Session is 7-8 p. m. Bridal Academy is a revolving
panel of area experts whose purpose is to guide you into the planning process through education. Learn what to look for, what to ask, what’s a good “deal” and what is not. Each Academy features different topics. This is for the bride and one guest. Gift bags for each bride attending! This monthly event rotates between The Wedding Place (4618 Speedway Dr.) and The Monogram Shoppe (Covington Plaza) Visit http://www.weddingplacebridal.com/ for topics, times, and more information. Sponsored by The Wedding Place, The Monogram Shoppe, and Megasound.